Roland says he used to take forever to fall asleep.
The first night we spent together was when I went to visit him for the first time, and I told him it was OK if we shared the bed rather than him have to sleep on the recliner. We slept clothed, because the relationship hadn't progressed *that* far yet ;-). He slept better than usual, despite the cramped quarters.
10ish years later, he still sleeps better when I'm in the bed than when I'm not, no matter what we may or may not do before sleeping.
"Historically, we have never been meant to sleep in the same bed as each other. It is a bizarre thing to do.
WTF? Come on, people have been sleeping together, if only for warmth, as long as there have been cold nights :-). I'd be interested in knowing what research supports this argument.
"If they have shared their bed with their partner for a long time they miss them and that will disturb sleep."
Horse hockey
The first night we spent together was when I went to visit him for the first time, and I told him it was OK if we shared the bed rather than him have to sleep on the recliner. We slept clothed, because the relationship hadn't progressed *that* far yet ;-). He slept better than usual, despite the cramped quarters.
10ish years later, he still sleeps better when I'm in the bed than when I'm not, no matter what we may or may not do before sleeping.WTF? Come on, people have been sleeping together, if only for warmth, as long as there have been cold nights :-). I'd be interested in knowing what research supports this argument.At least he got that one right :-).