And to be fair, it needed time and patient application of a 2x4 over my head during that time period to notice that anyone WAS interested in me. So the fact you did make that interest clear when I was completely clue-repellent speaks volumes.
Thankfully I've learned to at least notice the clues now. And that my being the aggressor isn't the Very Bad Thing I thought it was. In fact, it's a lot more healthy and sane for myself and my partners to accept that I can be a gentleman AND be aggressive, that the two are not mutually exclusive. That while it's a delight to be the prey at times, I rather like being the predator as well.
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Date: 2011-01-05 07:59 am (UTC)Thankfully I've learned to at least notice the clues now. And that my being the aggressor isn't the Very Bad Thing I thought it was. In fact, it's a lot more healthy and sane for myself and my partners to accept that I can be a gentleman AND be aggressive, that the two are not mutually exclusive. That while it's a delight to be the prey at times, I rather like being the predator as well.