Ah, *thats* what I am!

[patgund]

Under normal circumstances, I like Something Positive anyway.

However, today's episode made me go "Ah, yes, *that's* what I am."

http://www.livejournal.com/community/som_pos/274804.html

Considering how many *years* I've been setting off false positives on friends "gaydar", (and, for that matter, most of my family thought I was gay for years until they got the birth announcement of my daughter - which threw them all for a loop), it's nice to a) have a term to stick on it, and b) know I'm not the only one. (Especially since I've *had* gay friends comment that for a straight boy, I can be a royal bitch.....)

On the other paw, it really makes courting a pain............

Comments

[angelique69.livejournal.com]

Jammer, huh? Sounds about right to me! Blessed Be, Angelique

[nolly.livejournal.com]

I think I like "jammer" better than Wussy Boy>, which is the term I'd come across previously.

[nolly.livejournal.com]

I should also add that a significant fraction, possibly a majority, of people I've been involved with fall in this category. Which might explain my extremely unreliable gaydar -- only really strong signals ping it.

[ismarc.livejournal.com]

Y'know, it's strange. I discovered years ago that I have gaydar and have discovered it to be virtually flawless. Which is, I'd guess, odd for a straight guy. And, no sh**t, you never registered a blip.