An open post

Someone, and I do not know who, has made a claim against me and Little Bit's mother, speading an outragous rumour.

Namely a claim that I was telling people that Little Bit's mother had ABANDONED Little Bit and that she was going to be adopted.

Now, ONE person in my LJ confused my LJ name for my daughter (Little Bit) with my name for the little boy we had for a couple in Poway (Littlest Bit) Said post is at http://patgund.livejournal.com/1834072.html I did correct that person (http://patgund.livejournal.com/1834072.html?thread=4340056#t4340056)

As a result of this, Little Bit's mother is refusing to talk to me.

If someone has spead such a story by mistake, putting 2+2 together and coming up with purple, then be known that your ill-thought words have only made worse a bad situation, and hurt two people who care for their daughter very much. And I ask that you try to repair the damage your words have caused.

If someone has spread such a story on purpose though, for whatever perverse reasons of their own, then I will call it what this is

An utter, complete, bullshit lie.

A lie that is not fair to her mother, myself, or our daughter.

You do NOT play games with a child like this. Not now, not ever.

I say this:

You are scum. Scum unworthy of courtesy, of dignity, of honor.

And as such, you are worthy of one thing

The gauntlet in the face and the words "I accept". Or coffee and pistols at dawn.

Your choice

On edit - her mother has also posted her statement on this matter at http://mysryael.livejournal.com/89991.html

Be aware that I will also happily take someone to court for libel and slander should I find out that this claim was made out of malice rather than ignorance. Neither her mother or myself need or deserve this kind of crap.

An open post

Someone, and I do not know who, has made a claim against me and Little Bit's mother, speading an outragous rumour.

Namely a claim that I was telling people that Little Bit's mother had ABANDONED Little Bit and that she was going to be adopted.

Now, ONE person in my LJ confused my LJ name for my daughter (Little Bit) with my name for the little boy we had for a couple in Poway (Littlest Bit) Said post is at http://patgund.livejournal.com/1834072.html I did correct that person (http://patgund.livejournal.com/1834072.html?thread=4340056#t4340056)

As a result of this, Little Bit's mother is refusing to talk to me.

If someone has spead such a story by mistake, putting 2+2 together and coming up with purple, then be known that your ill-thought words have only made worse a bad situation, and hurt two people who care for their daughter very much. And I ask that you try to repair the damage your words have caused.

If someone has spread such a story on purpose though, for whatever perverse reasons of their own, then I will call it what this is

An utter, complete, bullshit lie.

A lie that is not fair to her mother, myself, or our daughter.

You do NOT play games with a child like this. Not now, not ever.

I say this:

You are scum. Scum unworthy of courtesy, of dignity, of honor.

And as such, you are worthy of one thing

The gauntlet in the face and the words "I accept". Or coffee and pistols at dawn.

Your choice

On edit - her mother has also posted her statement on this matter at http://mysryael.livejournal.com/89991.html

Be aware that I will also happily take someone to court for libel and slander should I find out that this claim was made out of malice rather than ignorance. Neither her mother or myself need or deserve this kind of crap.

So much for that idea.....

Thanks to the nameless person who either accidently misread or deliberately made up that rumour, my appitite is now gone.

I tried to eat something - and the very smell made me sick to the point of gagging

I don't want to think of the acid content of my stomach right now.

Honestly, if someone misread or misunderstood a post I made, please fix the damage you've done. Because ultimately, the person that will be hurt is NOT the parents, but Little Bit herself.

And if you did it deliberately to hurt either of Little Bit's parents, trust me, I'll be happy to drag what's left of your sorry ass into court. What's left that is.

So much for that idea.....

Thanks to the nameless person who either accidently misread or deliberately made up that rumour, my appitite is now gone.

I tried to eat something - and the very smell made me sick to the point of gagging

I don't want to think of the acid content of my stomach right now.

Honestly, if someone misread or misunderstood a post I made, please fix the damage you've done. Because ultimately, the person that will be hurt is NOT the parents, but Little Bit herself.

And if you did it deliberately to hurt either of Little Bit's parents, trust me, I'll be happy to drag what's left of your sorry ass into court. What's left that is.

Statement

It has come to my attention that several people have misunderstood something.

In the past, I have referred to my daughter as Little Bit.

There is also a four year old boy that was done as a surrogacy for her former cousin-in law, which I have in the past called Littlest Bit.

A few days ago, I posted a picture of Little Bit, and said it was sent by Littlest Bit's adoptive parents.

Some people read that wrong, and thought I was implying that my daughter was being given up for adoption.

Nothing could be further from the truth.

It seems that some person or people may have used that post to start a very nasty rumor.

Said rumour is simply NOT TRUE.

If anyone has been hurt by said rumour, then I deeply and sincerely apologize for that hurt. It was not now or ever my intention to give anyone the impression that Little Bit was being given up for adoption or abandoned, and I deeply apologize for the pain that impression may have given - and deeply loathe those who have may have twisted my words to fit their agenda.

It was not my intent to provide fodder for the rumor trolls.

If anyone wishes to discuss this matter with me or clarify it further, please let me know ASAP.

(thank you to selenesue and cormac for helping me word this.)

Statement

It has come to my attention that several people have misunderstood something.

In the past, I have referred to my daughter as Little Bit.

There is also a four year old boy that was done as a surrogacy for her former cousin-in law, which I have in the past called Littlest Bit.

A few days ago, I posted a picture of Little Bit, and said it was sent by Littlest Bit's adoptive parents.

Some people read that wrong, and thought I was implying that my daughter was being given up for adoption.

Nothing could be further from the truth.

It seems that some person or people may have used that post to start a very nasty rumor.

Said rumour is simply NOT TRUE.

If anyone has been hurt by said rumour, then I deeply and sincerely apologize for that hurt. It was not now or ever my intention to give anyone the impression that Little Bit was being given up for adoption or abandoned, and I deeply apologize for the pain that impression may have given - and deeply loathe those who have may have twisted my words to fit their agenda.

It was not my intent to provide fodder for the rumor trolls.

If anyone wishes to discuss this matter with me or clarify it further, please let me know ASAP.

(thank you to selenesue and cormac for helping me word this.)

August 10

On this day:

tepintzin was born

And the Lego company was started.

Not that I'm saying there's any connection......

Happy Birthday to you both!

August 10

On this day:

tepintzin was born

And the Lego company was started.

Not that I'm saying there's any connection......

Happy Birthday to you both!